I may go to a lawyer

Thanks for all your messages. I may go to a lawyer (there is one in our area who gives free initial consultations) and see whether I can get my husband to sign a formal, legal agreement that he will repay the monies used to pay off AMEX.

I also would like if he would agree to have his salary paid into my checking account, and for me to take over handling the household accounts.

I also would plan to either cut out cable (or go to basic), go back to dial-up service, try to reduce our power/utility costs and grocery costs.

Those are my immediate thoughts.

I’m not sure how this weekend will go.

Thanks….so much….for all your feedback. It really does help.